-Come on fast and hard.
-Make you feel utterly hopeless.
-Make you feel alone, even in a room full of people.
-Make you feel like a burden to you family and friends.
-Make you lose interest in doing the things you enjoy.
-Make you angry at nothing at all.
-Cause unprovoked hostility toward the people you love.
-Cause strain on your relationships.
-Leave you with no ambition.
-Make you feel unable to do everyday tasks like household chores, taking care of yourself and/or children, or going into work.
-Make you tired, so tired that getting out of bed is the hardest thing you’ll do all day, if you can manage to do it at all.
-Make you physically sick (e.g. body aches, unexplained pain, upset stomach, nausea, extreme fatigue).
-Make you question truths that you once held on to.
-Make you think that not being here would be best for everyone.
Depression is a very lonely condition. Even when you have people who care about you and people who would be willing to listen, you can still feel like they just wouldn’t understand. You feel judged. Sometimes you can recognize that there really is nothing wrong, that your life isn’t that bad, and yet you feel absolutely hopeless and awful and you now feel guilty and want to scream JUST GET OVER YOURSELF! but it doesn’t help and only makes you feel worse.
Depression is hard to understand if you’ve never had it. It can make you(the un-depressed) frustrated and angry at your loved one who, sometimes, seems like they’re just faking it. You might think they are being selfish.
You need to know that they are suffering. They don’t want to feel this way. No one wishes for depression. We know your penitence and understanding is a lot to ask for sometimes. We know what our condition does to those we love and we hate it, just as much as you do.